Eat, drink and be merry

If you want a disease-free body and mind (I will not use the word spirit to make this more inclusive), follow the simple steps while eating food and drinking. In less than a fortnight you will experience the magic and the miracle. You will feel light and rejuvenated. It can cure any disease from the root. If you make this your lifestyle,nothing like it! Please try it. This time around, I will let the experts speak. Listen and follow the simple steps if you please.

What you should do before eating? Click here

Why is water important? Up to 60% of the human adult body is water. According to H.H. Mitchell, Journal of Biological Chemistry 158, the brain and heart are composed of 73% water, and the lungs are about 83% water. The skin contains 64% water, muscles and kidneys are 79%, and even the bones are watery: 31%.

Listen to this carefully my friends; those who are not religious minded can at least listen carefully until the end. See for yourself what words can do, simple words like Hitler, Mother Teresa, I love you, You are a fool, I will kill you, Love, love, love…and so on. Here is Dr Masaru (or Marasu, what’s in a name) Emoto for you! To listen, click here


If you are interested to know about the mechanism of the best gadget ever (the human body), listen to what Sadhguru has to say by clicking here



Eat, drink and be merry!
Here's to a dis-ease free world!

Tell me

Tell me

I am a fool. That's why growth and development doesn't attract me.

When rich become richer, poor poorer for years on end, I don't see any growth. Trust me, I see a design, a pattern, but no growth. Which car you drive, which version of software you use, how digital you've become, what chandrayan 1 and 2 can or cannot do doesn't mean anything to me. What political parties do, not do, how patriotic you are or you aren't doesn't mean anything to me.

Tell me when you, with your science and technology, growth and development, can remove pollution from the face of the earth. Tell me when you can convert sea water into drinking water, tell me when you can grow plants in the vast acres of land just lying unused, unexplored, when you can purify the waters of all rivers, when you can put plastic out of use, when you can function without wars, when not an inch of land is scrapped as infertile, when no human being on earth has to starve for one square meal.

You see we have an engaging work ahead of us, work that needs understanding, work that needs foolproof scientific framework of the highest order. Tell me when you're ready to work.

Health is wealth

Health is wealth

Anger is the deadliest grass you can ever have. It hits and hurts you first. You get diseases like indigestion, insomnia, migraines, skin diseases, cancer, arthritis, depression and many more unwanted maladies.
Ways to avoid anger.
1. Don't use harsh words
2. Don't abuse anyone, not even in your thoughts, remember thoughts kill, thoughts heal.
3. Don't judge, love. Believe in this... "Love me the most when I deserve it the least." This will help you have a sound mind in a healthy body. Remember your mind creates your body, not the other way around.
How to avoid anger.
1. Breathing exercise
2. Walking, jogging, running
3. Daily dosage of positive self-talk. If you have any specific challenge, share... I will help you have a customized self-talk.
4. Meditation. Take help from YouTube: sadguru, brahmakumaris, Deepak Chopra, Art of living,and so on.
5. Doing something you really enjoy, e.g. planting, singing, writing, reading, playing... doing which you feel good.
6. Surround yourself with people who empower you. Avoid those who don't, but never ever curse them.
Here's wishing you all the very best! 👍

Change your mindset

Change your mindset

Do not get into a job. All family members will disappear into different locations sooner than you realize and then say you spend quality time, you don't look for quantity. Nonsense!
I know of a family, all achievers and high performers where the guy works in Bangalore, his wife in Seattle, his son in Venice and his daughter in New York. The couple is planning to marry their children, the would-be daughter-in-law works in Toronto, the would-be son in law works in Sydney.
I also know of a Gujarati family, and a Punjabi family, big ones; while the gujju family, all of them are settled in Essex, the Punjabi family are enjoying their lives in Jalandhar.
The working family, totally at the mercy of their respective organisations, spend their lives alone, submerged in work, partying, social networking, while the two business families are enjoying life together... they say that every meal they take together is a feast for them.
My message to the younger generation is to change their mindset of working for others. Work for yourself, with your family members... you'll never regret. 

Say no 🚫 to working in private organisations

As of now, working in private concerns, big or small, is the worst thing that can happen to any individual.

If you succeed, you are screwed, if you don't, less said the batter. There, you slog day in and day out... no time to die... but when the time comes, you'll be cleared... without any guilt or shame... read, understood, closed as a natural process.

It is surprising that these very private organizations talk more on ethics, integrity and engage on activities like that of CSR (corporate social responsibilities) much more than public sector organisations.

The USP for public sector organisations is that they are employee centric, they don't need to advertise themselves as best place to work, while the sole motive of private organisations, big or small, is profit... nothing else. They might have scored highest as the best employer, but the score is just a number, for the same organisation may have scores of employees dissatisfied and wronged.

So hey youngsters... think twice before you join a private organization... your dreamy eyes will turn into stones sooner than you realize, your engagement will be to kill your colleagues by backstabbing them... you will grow into a machine... you will lie, only lie and make money... if you can help in layoffs, you will earn more money... if you engage in CSR activities and help secure more points for your organization, you will earn even more money... but you'll pay a heavy price... you will lose yourself.

So think twice, thrice, and many times before your join a private organization. Blessings

Say an emphatic NO 🚫 to private organization. Wahan Kam mat karo jahan marne ki fursat na ho, air jahan samay ane par tum kuchal site jaoge... wahan samay barbad mat karo. Keep writing exams until you crack an SSC or PSC, wbcs, ias exam. Blessings. 

We have sinned

History of calling names

It is sad. For a long time, we have been harassing you. We have dragged you to the pyre of your husbands and called you ‘sati’. If you were single, either widowed or orphaned, we had legitimately dragged you to brothels where we could devour you, molest you, and could call you a 'whore'. We have tortured you even at homes as our wives living under the so-called ‘protection’ of families; we called you ''kulta' (bitch), 'dayen' (witch). We have killed you if dowries were not sufficient; called you 'churel' (unlucky). We have molested you in public, whose examples abound in our Epics too.

Stories

Then we started abusing you at the workplaces, public places like shops, public transports; we trespassed into all the possible premises, like schools, colleges, hospitals, places of worships and so on. We have raped women of all ages, from a newborn to a nonagenarian. And yet there is no atonement.

Me too v/s Men too

When women gathered the courage to talk about the atrocities they faced for decades with a MeToo tag (Please read), we had to rubbish it with a counter tag MenToo (Please read)? What torture are we talking about exactly? What disrespect? Please let us ask ourselves whether what we have done to women is at all comparable to what, in our parlance, those ‘false cases’ have done to us? No one would disrespect MJ Akbar if he had the wisdom and affection of accepting what he did to his women colleagues for years. It is so sad to find that we are also defending the father who abused his daughter? Please think…please think…please let us accept our faults, if at all…. let us genuflect in front of the life-givers and seek for their forgiveness so that years of sins could be absolved. 

A single story

I will share a story with you. There was this guy working in an office. Let’s say his name was Krishna. He never participated in any office gossips…male gossips…because he found that whenever men got together they were talking against women, they would have their definitions of ‘good women’(mostly ‘gharelu aurat', women staying at home or the ones who never raised their voice against those hidden masculine hands that traveled across their bodies in private or in public places, ‘bad women’ (mostly working women or women talking against injustice, gender inequality, and oppression, or the ones who floated around in western outfits or smoked and drank openly, like them). This man who never participated in gossips obviously became a threat. Although an engineer by profession, his passion was into writing, he would write poems, fictions, and anything that made him happy or sad. As mediocre writers normally do, he would constantly pester everyone to read his posts…no sooner an article would be posted, he would go around with a begging bowl to his friends, relatives, colleagues and send them group texts requesting them to read. Once he sent a group text to his colleagues at 11 p.m.! Unfortunately, in this group were two ladies. These two ladies were very close to the group of men with whom Krishna never spoke. After a series of events, Krishna was thrown out of his organization on grounds of sexual harassment. The news had spread in the circle like wildfire and Krishna never got a job, he was thrown out of work for good.

Krishna should have indeed respected the dignity of his women colleagues before hitting the send button. He bears no grudge against those women, neither against the group of men who took the opportunity of the situation to throw him out of the organization. But he feels sad about men who think and talk ill of women who work, who are independent, those who smoke and drink or dress differently; he wants men who are judgemental about everything women to do to question their own belief-systems rather than pointing fingers at women. He doesn’t mind being severed from working life…if men have tortured women through the years, a little bit of injustice is no injustice at all… he takes it as a punishment for his entire race.

Atonement

At the end of it all, who are we fighting against? When women have started speaking up, the least we can do is to lend them our ears and seek for forgiveness for the years of unspeakable sins we have committed to them. For this meaningless battle to end, this mindless wall between the genders to melt, we need to come forward and acknowledge what we have 'really' done to women, on one hand, we have subjugated them, disrespected them, violated them and on the other, we have called them 'ma' (mother) and 'behen' (sister); this hypocrisy needs to end; from the heart of our hearts we need to coalesce our thought and action to say, on no uncertain terms, ‘We have sinned’.

FIFA 2022

Three of us might be there for the FIFA 2022.... you never know. Let's keep our fingers crossed.

Let all the three of us be there

in the fields of Qatar
in twenty twenty-two!
Let's football, practise together,
let us shake our legs with vim and vigor,
as we play a different ballgame anew
and make the dream come true!

The poem is inspired by the film GOLD directed by Reema Kagti, produced by Ritesh Sidhwani and Farhan Akhtar under the Excel Entertainment banner. It stars Akshay Kumar, Mouni Roy, Kunal Kapoor, Vineet Kumar Singh, Amit Sadh, and Sunny Kaushal.

Please take some time to read the appreciation by clicking on the link here.